Welcome to my online journal. I note a recent surge in site visits over the past few days, most of which come from the world’s leading social media platform, Facebook. I do hope you found some tips here useful.
Today, I focus on ageism or age discrimination prevalent on social media these days.
Studies show that women of a certain age bracket are common targets of this type of discrimination, possibly due to outdated female stereotypes. You’ll see this frequently in social media comments attacking women solely because of their age. Unfortunately, the rude comments come from women ( not always young, but sometimes young-er than their victims).
How to deal?
Most women surveyed on their potential reactions to being the victim of ageist comments say that blocking is the best remedy. Some feisty ones say that they would clap back and put the attackers in their place. Some also say to just ignore and not let them take time and attention that are best used on living your best life or enjoying the perks of being matured and settled. Depending on your situation, I think that the right strategy is whatever gives you peace of mind.
As for the loose cannons out there: Girls, it is a sign of ill breeding to prey on fellow females. There are enough obstacles for women succeeding in this world of misogynists, harassers, and abusers. It is also a reflection of the kind of language used in your household. Remember to watch your thoughts, they become words. Verbal diarrhea may also indicate underlying psychological issues that perpetuate in a vicious cycle because of such toxic behavior. If you’re still single and have been unsuccessful in the dating game, perhaps it’s time to reflect on your language and behavior and see if there is a similar pattern in your relationships. On the other hand, if you’re in a relationship with unavailable men (legally, physically, or emotionally) do you ever wonder if you can attract better prospects by making some changes in your attitude towards others? Is that really the best that you can come up with?
If you are a victim of ageism on social media, then this message is for you: Everyone ages, and someday it will also catch up on your attackers. The advanced years you have are assets, not liabilities, for you KNOW better, ACCOMPLISHED much, LIVED a good life without stepping on others, and have earned enough to live independently without your parents’ money. What matters most is the QUALITY of your life and the heartprints you leave behind on the lives of people you have encountered.
Love and Light.